A couple of days ago, my wife mentioned the story about how we came together, and I thought it would be a good time to share. Of course some will see this as a bragging session, but it is not my concern what some may think. It all began in the summer of 2002, and at that time I was still working at my first job before I started my business. My wife was hired that summer, and I can remember seeing her for the first time, but I also remember seeing the engagement ring on her finger. Regardless, I went up to her and introduced myself, and she was very pleasant. That night, I tormented myself thinking about the possibilities of pursuing her regardless of her relationship status. I had been through stealing an engaged girl away before, and I just didn't know if I was up for it again.
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Finally, I talked myself out of pursuing her, and I decided the best course of action would be to ignore her, and I did. I learned later that this ignoring period drove her crazy and made me even more appealing to her. The ignoring session lasted for about two weeks, and then I had another sleepless night debating what I should do. After some serious thinking, I decided that I would give myself to Christmas, and if I couldn't steal her away by then, I would give up. At this point it is late August/early September, and I began an onslaught of crafty flirting and mild advances toward her. Immediately, I saw that I was making up ground, but I still didn't feel confident until the day I saw her crying in her office. I walked in to check on her, and I noticed the ring was gone! I celebrated to myself, and I asked her what was going on. She explained that she had broken up with her man (douchebag), and she felt bad for breaking his heart. Immediately, being the gentleman I am ;) I asked her to accompany me to the gym for a workout and run. I told her that I would be her shoulder to cry on, and I would listen to her problems. She agreed and from that point things advanced, and we were dating two weeks later. As the relationship advanced, she confessed that she left her man (douchebag) because of my advances and pursuit. However, some of you may be wandering what happened to her ex......well, he is probably posting over at Ask Andy Trad Forum.....Sorry, I couldn't resist guys....just having a little fun with you!